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SHE MET ON A DATING SITE WILL NOT MEET WITH HER DEAR
ANNIE: I met an attractive man through one of the dating sites. We exchanged
emails for at least two months before we met. So I feel that
I got to know a lot about him. He took me out to a very expensive restaurant,
although it was located 45 minutes from town, he was very well dressed and had
good manners. I felt that we really hit it off. He called me the very next day
and suggested that we meet the following Friday and go to Atlantic City for the
day. I told him that I would prefer to stay in town. He suggested a very special
restaurant in midtown. I showed up at the designated place all
dressed up, got lots of looks. There were no reservations in his name. I waited
at the bar, for over half an hour, two gentlemen started a conversation with me,
I told them the whole story. We dicided to wait another half hour and if my date
does not show up we'll have dinner. We proceeded to have dinner.
I never heard from my no show date, I did not email him either. I wonder if I
should, I'm still interested if there is a good explanation for his behaviour.
Tell me your thoughts. Puzzled, in NYC DEAR PUZZLED IN NYC:
This very attractive man you met and went out with is probably married. A)
Your first meeting was practically out of town, 45 minute drive, right? Was he
hiding?
B) The seconds"date" he wanted to take you out even further
to AtlanticCity, you are smart not to have gone with him, after all you don't
know whoyou are dealing with. I know, I know, he is attractive, well mannered
etc..
C) He is vindictive, he stood you up because you did not go along
with him for the day to Atlantic city. The only "good"
explanation for being stood up is: death of the date or aserious accident or a
stroke where one is unable communicate even by eyelid movements. Don't call or
email him, he is worthless. Annie
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